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Inclusive Intimacy with Byrd

Hi there! I’m Byrd, a certified sexuality educator and relationship practitioner devoted to supporting diverse individuals and partnerships in co-creating fluid, personalized paths toward their intimacy and relationship goals, whether that means cultivating a more pleasurable sex life, improving communication, reducing conflict, or something similar!
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What I Offer

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Individual Sessions

These are one-on-one sessions. Together, we'll bridge the gap between where you are now, whether feeling disconnected, anxious, or unsexy, and where you want to be. For example, a more pleasurable sex life, an easier relationship, or better intimacy.
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Relationship Sessions

Along with your partner or partners, we'll co-create an adaptable path towards your joint goals, such as better communication, less fighting, or a more intimate sex life. Whether sessions before marriage, working through a divorce, wanting to start having better sex, or just wanting to make your communication the best it can be, these sessions are for you!
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Workshops, Classes, & Professional Resources

Peruse through my recorded, on-demand classes and workshops, view my upcoming live workshops, or contact me for a custom-made workshop for you or your organization. I also offer professional case consultation for other professionals, like coaches and therapists!
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More about your Provider

My goal is to be a collaborative advocate: someone who empowers people with the knowledge and tools they need to make informed, embodied decisions about their bodies, desires, and connections.

Some of my specialties include troubleshooting pleasure like loss of libido, enhancing healthy communication, working with LGBTQIA2S+ folks, disability, chronic illness (including ME/CFS, Long COVID, hEDS, POTS, and more), and neurodivergence. My work is grounded in empathy and guided by a culturally responsive lens.

I have received professional training from the Institute for Sexuality Education and Enlightenment (ISEE), the Sexual Health Alliance (SHA), and the Gottman Institute. Moreover, I am a Kink-Aware Professional (KAP). I’m also committed to ongoing learning, regularly expanding my knowledge to stay current, inclusive, and responsive to the evolving needs of the communities I serve.

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Frequently asked questions

I see clients from all walks of life. I particularly specialize in working with people navigating queerness, transness, disability, chronic illness, neurodivergence, and anyone looking to reconnect with pleasure or improve communication and intimacy in their relationships. 

That said, you don’t need to fit into any specific category to work with me. I welcome individuals and relationships & couples of all identities, bodies, backgrounds, and relationship structures. If you’re looking for a nonjudgmental, collaborative space to explore sex, intimacy, communication, or connection, you’re in the right place. I do not accept clients whom I believe do not fit into my areas of expertise. My approach is always person-centered, adaptable, through a culturally aware lens, and grounded in your unique lived experience.

I offer one-to-one coaching, relationship coaching, and group coaching, virtually. My sessions are about 55 to 60 minutes, but can be customized to your needs. We meet via video chat, phone call, or even messaging. I usually meet with clients weekly, every 2 weeks, monthly, or on an as-needed basis.

You can reach me via my email byrd@inclusiveintimacywithbyrd.com or via the form on my contact page. First, we schedule a free consultation over the phone or via message to see if we're the right fit and to answer any questions. Then, we schedule sessions from there!

My session cost ranges from $100 for individual sessions to $140 for relationship sessions (up to three individuals). My current rates are intentionally set below the normal range for providers with my level of training, certification, and specialization. This allows me to offer expert support while trying to keep my services as accessible as possible. I also offer sliding scale options that can be discussed on a case-by-case basis, just reach out! My online course prices are listed next to each course in my shop. Workshops are priced on a case-by-case basis, contact me to talk about your workshop needs at byrd@inclusiveintimacywithbyrd.com or via the contact page.

Contact me at byrd@inclusiveintimacywithbyrd.com or through the form on my contact page!

My experience with Byrd has been extremely transformative. They always listen so intently and ask questions that help me come to realisations about my sex life that I didn't think of before. With their help, I've been able to have a new outlook on myself and my relationship. I especially love how knowledgeable they are about my chronic illness, which is a main component of my relationship with my partner. It can be so hard to find a chronic illness-informed provider, so I'm grateful to have found them.
–Client A.
Byrd has this amazing ability to make us feel safe even when we’re bringing our messy, complicated, disabled, queer selves into the room. They balance insight, humor, and deep empathy, giving us the tools to untangle old patterns and build a stronger connection. Their flexible approach and sliding scale make it easy to engage fully without stress — these are hands-down the best couples sessions we’ve experienced in years!
– Client S.
I really enjoy working with Byrd! In our sessions, they help me get to deep topics in a way that feels safe without feeling overwhelming. I also really enjoy the fact that there is "homework" that feels actionable and helps me integrate the new skills we worked on together more fully. But it's never given as a hardcore requirement, which takes the stress down some on difficult topics. I also feel like I've gotten to more of the core issues I really want to work on in a quicker time than I have when working on it in the past. I also feel very supported and like Byrd goes out of their way to help find helpful resources for me, which I really appreciate! I would highly recommend working with Byrd!
–Client C.
Byrd stands out as a thoughtful, ethical, and insightful educator who brings both rigour and compassion to their work. Their approach to intimacy coaching is grounded in evidence-based practices, yet always delivered with warmth, authenticity, and cultural sensitivity. Byrd has consistently demonstrated a sophisticated understanding of sexual health, communication, and relational dynamics. They approach topics of pleasure, consent, and embodiment with both clarity and respect, creating an inclusive environment where clients and learners feel safe to explore and grow.
–Client T.
Throughout their time with us, Byrd has demonstrated diligence, professionalism, and exceptional insight. They’re knowledge of sexuality education topics was evident in every aspect of their work. Beyond that, they brought a spirit of curiosity, inclusivity, and care that embodies the values of the sexuality education field. They approached everything with both intellectual rigor and emotional intelligence, contributing meaningfully to conversations about intimacy, pleasure, and sexual health.
–Client A.
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